Other people might not consider Bronwyn Berg and Hal Bennett lucky.
Berg and Bennett would disagree.
They consider themselves lucky to be able to open an inclusive new business in a new town, providing accessible service to people who need it. They are lucky to have found each other.
And they are lucky to have once needed the same wheelchair.
Berg, 50 and Bennett, 48, both had life-changing experiences. Berg sustained a brain injury six years ago that resulted in a seizure, movement and balance disorder. Bennett underwent a kidney transplant six years ago and leg amputations a year later due to infections.
Berg had been studying creative writing at the UBC campus in Kelowna. Bennett was just out of hospital and living in Kamloops. They had each been wheelchair shopping and fell in love with the same chair. It can take a long time for a custom-fit wheelchair to arrive, so the company allowed them to share the chair as a loaner.
ѻýMy publishing career was just taking off, but I was unable to give literary readings without the loaner chair, which a mysterious guy in Kamloops got ѻýstealing,ѻýѻý noted Berg.
When they met for the first time, they recognized each other through the wheelchair he was ѻýstealing.ѻý
Bennett was instantly interested in Berg. She was interested in remaining single. They claim it took Berg four months to give him her phone number, though they talked on Facebook Messenger regularly.
ѻýWe were going through the same thing at the time, adjusting to living in a world not designed for us. It was a very bonding experience,ѻý Berg said. ѻýAll went from there, we became best friends and then we became a couple.ѻý
ѻýSheѻýs a breath of fresh air, thatѻýs for sure,ѻý said Bennett. ѻýYou know when you meet someone thereѻýs more here.ѻý
They lived together for about a year in Kelowna before coming to Chemainus to launch the Clover (as in ѻýfour-leaf clover,ѻý get it) Clothing Co. They opened the store ѻý which also includes some new clothing ѻý at the Chemainus Public Market on Aug. 1, securing one of the last two available market spaces.
ѻýWho opens a store during a pandemic?ѻý Berg queried. ѻýWe do. I definitely felt like Chemainus needed a consignment store.ѻý
ѻýPeople love to go treasure hunting so thereѻýs a bit of that as well. Weѻýve been talking about doing a consignment shop for years. It wasnѻýt the right timing and I was basically housebound for five years.ѻý
They stumbled upon the opportunity almost by accident, driving around Vancouver Island and being impressed by the accessibility of Chemainus.
ѻýWhy are there ramps everywhere?ѻý Berg said with delight. ѻýWe felt like we were in Disneyland. Aside from a few stores, everythingѻýs accessible.ѻý
And thereѻýs also the aspect of turning up something special for shoppers.
ѻýA lot of disabled people struggle financially,ѻý Berg indicated. ѻýAnd yet many consignment stores arenѻýt wheelchair accessible. We are passionate about accessibility. We wouldnѻýt do it unless we could have a location that was inclusive to everyone. The Chemainus Public Market was a unique opportunity. They already had a flat entrance, automatic door openers and an accessible bathroom. All that we added was a wheelchair accessible change room.
Theyѻýve been through a lot, but finding each other has helped endure the difficult days and prepare them for this new chapter.
ѻýIt was very life-altering,ѻý Berg said of her injury. ѻýThereѻýs lots of grieving that needs to be done, but then you get to a point of acceptance. People see the wheelchair and feel sad. Iѻým not the least bit sad about the wheelchair. Before I had the wheelchair I was crawling around and gripping walls.
ѻýIѻým definitely a survivor,ѻý she added. ѻýHal and I donѻýt feel bad about our lives. We definitely have challenges. I canѻýt work every day and had to give up my academic pursuits and career as a writer.ѻý
ѻýWeѻýre extremely lucky to have found each other. It can be a very isolating life. To go through disability with a partner is amazing. Our disabilities are different. Weѻýre able to care for each other without it ever being a burden. We never treat each other like weѻýre a burden.ѻý
Bennett was a Type 1 diabetic from the age of three. Complications from the diabetes eventually killed his kidneys. He went on dialysis 11 years ago and eventually had the transplant. The amputations of his legs below both knees were required five years ago.
He still uses a wheelchair as well, but the incredible improvements made over the years can be seen in his prosthetics, with ease of movement and different components used in their construction like carbon fibre.
ѻýMy attitude tends to be fairly productive,ѻý he said. ѻýI hate the word ѻýpositive.ѻý I like to see the wonder in things and live for the moment. If Iѻým not at the store, Iѻým on the slopes.ѻý
ѻýWe feel lucky to have found a town that has been so accessible, a business where we can offer an inclusive experience,ѻý Berg said. ѻýAnd weѻýre lucky to have found each other.ѻý
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