Once considered a taboo subject, whispered about behind closed doors, menopause is now sparking powerful conversations ѻý and one Victoria woman is hoping to turn up the volume on the discussion.
Having already ѻýconqueredѻý menopause, Kelly Coulter has launched a new video podcast ѻýMeant to Pauseѻý, sharing her journey alongside a number of guests, from health experts through to former B.C. Green Party leader Sonia Furstenau.
Funded by Telus Storyhive, the eight-episode series explores the topic of menopause, while sharing experiences and wisdom, to create a positive message about womenѻýs post-reproductive years.
ѻýIt's different for every woman, which is something that I really want to hit home,ѻý says Coulter.
While the podcast is intended for anyone wanting more information, Coulter hopes the series will especially help prepare young women, as ѻýknowledge is power,ѻý something she found lacking in her own experience.
ѻýEspecially women from my generation, I'm 62 now, when we were going through menopause, nobody was talking about it,ѻý she says. ѻýMine was 10 years, Iѻýve heard of women going through menopause for longer than that, so women are a little nervous about it, because they only typically heard bad things.ѻý
Coulter also hopes women experiencing menopause will be able to find reassurance and comfort about the symptoms they are experiencing, including ѻýbrain fogѻý, which can leave some people struggling with their memory.
ѻýDo I have dementia? Or am I going into Alzheimerѻýs?ѻý Coulter says, highlighting concerns women might have. ѻýThis [podcast] is a place to go to for them to understand their experience, so they donѻýt feel so alone, because it's scary too.ѻý
For women in post-menopause, the podcast is a tool for empowerment, says Coulter.
ѻýI want them to really seize that power, and see this as a positive," she says. "For women, more so than men, we are under a lot of pressure not to age ... and I want women to look forward to this part of their life."
During the ѻýMeant to Pauseѻý series, Coulter and her guests challenge societyѻýs attitude to menopause, asking if it could be the ѻýultimate blessing/liberation women are rewarded with in their life journey.ѻý
In the first episode, Coulterѻýs first guest, Lisbee Ray, a reproductive health educator, leans towards her menopause experience as a blessing, helping ѻýrid herѻý of hormonal issues causing her migraines.
ѻýWhen the hormones stop, you become quite changed,ѻý says Coulter. ѻýWhen you're in your reproductive years, you're going through a hormonal journey every month ѻý and so that's the blessing part, because it ends, that monthly hormonal journey is no longer a part of your life.
ѻýFor some women, it's a really big deal; for other women, it's less so. But I would say on average, once women recognize how much their hormones affect their daily life, it's quite something. I think we underrate it.ѻý
Episodes of ѻýMeant to Pauseѻý drop online weekly, with all eight episodes available from May 20. And Coulter already has her fingers crossed for a second season, with a number of ideas already floating around.
ѻýI pitched an episode ѻý that will probably talk about how we can better prepare the partners, typically men,ѻý she says. ѻýI would love to just continue doing the podcast as more information comes to light, because I honestly feel like we're in the very early days of understanding the possibilities of our post-menopausal journey.
"Honestly, we could talk about this like, ad nauseam."
To watch Coulter's video podcast 'Meant to Pause', visit the Telus Storyhive YouTube channel: .