Gigantic, multi-tiered wedding cakes, ostentatious floral displays, obscenely expensive wedding dresses and choreographed first dances had, in recent years, become the hallmark of wedding ceremonies and it seemed, for a time, that the trend would continue to expand into even greater hedonistic excess.
But those elaborate weddings have come with a hefty price tag. According to the Global Wedding Report, the average cost of one of those celebrations in Canada in 2023 was $30,000 to $50,000.
But recently, things appear to be changing. For one thing, following the COVID epidemic, and in the age of elevated inflation, the number of weddings happening in Canada and the United States have seen a significant decline.
And even for those who are getting married, it seems as though thereѻýs has been a general decline in the importance of big weddings.
Enter Vancouver Island's Jѻýlene Bradley.
Bradley, who spent much of her life working as a registered nurse, has recently completed her training to become a Certified Life Cycle Celebrant.
With that qualification in hand, and finding herself qualified to conduct weddings, Bradley decided it was a chance to give something back.
ѻýMy kids just got married and it was crazy expensive,ѻý said Bradley. ѻýI decided that Iѻýd provide an option and came up with the idea of holding pop-up weddings here on the beach in Sidney. I put up some posters and invited people to come down here today and get married at no cost.ѻý
So it happened that, in the early afternoon on June 15, several couples, with their marriage licenses in hand-arrived at Tulista Park in the Victoria suburb of Sidney where Bradley had set up a small location on the shore to conduct her simple wedding ceremony.
Linda Pellow and Blaine Rust were one of the many couples who took advantage of the opportunity.
ѻýThis is perfect. Thereѻýs no fuss and no muss,ѻý said Pellow. ѻýWeѻýve been together for 35 years and, although we never thought that it mattered whether we formalized the marriage, it seems that for things like survivorship rights, in B.C. it seems that it does matter.ѻý
The couple laughed when asked their age, acknowledging that they had been together for decades.
ѻýWe were living in Ontario and had some mutual friends,ѻý said Pellow. ѻýOne day the phone in my studio rang and I answered and asked who it was calling. Iѻýll never forget what Blaine answered. He said, ѻýthis is a voice out of your futureѻý.ѻý
Pellow was smitten.
ѻýWe went on a first date andѻý well, here we are, 35 years later.ѻý
In total, seven couples took advantage of the opportunity to get married on the beach, and they represented a wide variety of ages and circumstances.
ѻýThey ranged in age from their 20ѻýs to their 70ѻýs,ѻý said Bradley. ѻýOne couple came with their two children, another with both sets of parents and some came on their own.ѻý
And while several couples arrived in casual attire, some opted for a more formal approach, complete with bouquets of flowers and, in one case, a tiara.
Bradley is unsure whether sheѻýll be repeating the pop-up wedding concept.
ѻýI really donѻýt know. I suppose itѻýs a possibility,ѻý she said.
Until then Bradley will continue to offer customized life celebrations for the people of Sidney, including end of life ceremonies, baby welcoming, weddings and more.
ѻýI fear that weѻýve lost a lot of the celebrations in our society. Weѻýve become social media people but weѻýre really no all that social. I hope to help change that,ѻý she said.
For more information on Bradleyѻýs services, visit jlene.com.