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Wittstock and Kent Wiley were inseparable growing up in a Toronto neighbourhood. They played and went to school together, and were even each other乌鸦传媒檚 best men at their weddings.

But as their lives changed the pair drifted apart, as people do.

They last saw each other at Expo 86 in Vancouver, and in the years that followed Wiley moved halfway around the world. Wittstock meanwhile transitioned from being a man to becoming a woman. She told her family and friends, but never had the chance to tell Wiley that Jeff had become Joanne.

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Wittstock, who lives in Salmon Arm, is the subject of a new TVO documentary series titled Yearbook. Over six episodes, a variety of people reconnect with someone from their school days.

Wittstock乌鸦传媒檚 episode features scenes shot in Nelson, where she credits the organization ANKORS with providing her support services during her transition. The series debuted Jan. 16 and can be watched in its entirely online for free at .

Wittstock was approached by Yearbook乌鸦传媒檚 casting director Laura Morris on the website Quora, where Wittstock writes about trans issues. She knew immediately who she would want to reconnect with.

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Executive producer Mark Johnston was tasked with finding Wiley, who had moved to Thailand where he had a family. It wasn乌鸦传媒檛 too hard 乌鸦传媒� the TVO team looked him up on Linkedin 乌鸦传媒� and Johnston said the timing of the call was serendipitous.

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Wiley committed to meeting Wittstock in Toronto for a reunion, but Johnston didn乌鸦传媒檛 tell him about Wittstock乌鸦传媒檚 transition. That moment he would leave for the cameras.

Wittstock, a 70-year-old retired geologist, lives with her partner Marsha Bradcoe. She came out publicly as trans in 2016 or 2017, and the pair helped form in 2022.

In the TVO episode, Wittstock and her daughter Morgan share a scene in which they discuss how Wiley might react to seeing her. Wittstock remembers dressing in girls clothing as a child and came out to some people as a teenager, but for years she stayed silent.

When Wittstock began telling friends and family she was transitioning, it required time and a delicate approach.

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Reactions tend to be mixed. Wittstock estimates a quarter of the people she tells are enthusiastic, while most are apathetic. A small percentage are either hostile or eventually drift away.

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Readers will have to watch the episode to find out how Wiley reacts to meeting Wittstock again for the first time. Johnston said the joy of the series is in watching people find each other.

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No matter how the reunion played out, Wittstock is confident in who she is now. It乌鸦传媒檚 for the world to meet her where she is.

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Support services for the 2SLGBTQI+ people and their families in the Shuswap Region can be found at , located at 450 Okanagan Ave. E in Salmon Arm. In Nelson, ANKORS乌鸦传媒� program is at 101 Baker St.