A Mission teenager who suffers from a chronic illness has been told she canѻýt attend her prom because she has missed too many classes.
Triss Hunter, a Grade 11 student at Mission Secondary School, says she has missed about 100 days of school, but not because she skips out or tries to ditch class.
Hunter has a condition called Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome. Itѻýs a disorder that affects the connective tissues supporting the skin, bones and blood vessels.
According to Hunter, the condition causes chronic pain and dislocations that can occur at any time.
Last week, she found out that ll of those absences were the reason she will not be permitted to go to prom.
Hunter and her mother Sarah donѻýt think the decision is fair.
ѻýMy grades are not perfect, because I do miss a lot of school. But Iѻým getting passing grades. Iѻým passing all my classes, but for prom, itѻýs just the attendance,ѻý Triss said.
Although she is in Grade 11, Triss said this is her last year at Mission Secondary so she applied to go to the prom, along with her friend Isaiah.
After filling out the paperwork, Triss says her application was denied by the school principal.
She and her mom appealed, talking to the principal, but the school did not change its mind.
Then she took her case to the Mission school board, but found out yesterday that the board had sided with the school.
Triss said the situation isnѻýt fair and wonders if she was supposed to miss her therapy sessions and doctorѻýs appointments.
ѻýIs school more important than my health?ѻý she asks.
Triss said the school indicated that most of her absences were unexcused ѻý which usually means no one phoned in to inform the school or no doctorѻýs notes were provided.
But Triss says she doesnѻýt know ahead of time that she is going to suffer an attack.
ѻýThere are sometimes when I miss weeks of school or even a month. Or there are some days when I can go to school for one class then the pain gets so bad that I canѻýt go to the rest of my classes.
ѻýAll my teachers are supportive. They know I have a disability ѻý they see me every day. They know my struggle, but because the school board and everyone else doesnѻýt see it ѻý itѻýs inside of me and you canѻýt really see it on the outside ѻý they think itѻýs all in my head.ѻý
When she does attend school, Triss always brings her service dog, Meadow.
ѻýShe has been trained for anxiety and mobility issues.ѻý
Trissѻý mother, Sarah, says the events of the last few weeks have taken a toll on her daughter.
ѻýItѻýs really tough what sheѻýs going through and itѻýs making her anxieties worse.ѻý
Sarah is still hopeful that the situation can be resolved, but the prom is just a week away, May 12, and time is running out.
ѻýShe has already bought her outfit. Itѻýs sad that she canѻýt go,ѻý Sarah said.
ѻýItѻýs like they are punishing her ѻýѻý
ѻýFor having a disability,ѻý says Triss, finishing her momѻýs sentence.
When asked for comment, Mission superintendent of schools, Angus Wilson, said he could not discuss individual students.
However, he can say that parents and students are ѻýall very aware of the criteriaѻý to attend prom.
ѻýThey are given many opportunities to resolve concerns and situations,ѻý Wilson said.
He added that, as far as attendance is concerned, parents or students ѻýhave a number of weeksѻý to call in to explain and excuse attendance issues.
ѻýThe school is very flexible about making allowances and making accommodations and ways to resolve concerns and so on,ѻý said Wilson, adding both sides have to work together in these situations.
Wilson also said the ѻýpriority for prom, of course, is Grade 12 students.ѻý
