ѻýDaddy, letѻýs play hockey.ѻý
It was January in Cornwall, Ontarioѻýtoo far below freezing to play hockey outside.
ѻýOkay, letѻýs get moving,ѻý Daddy said.
ѻýWhereѻýre we going to play?ѻý we two boys chimed.
ѻýHere in the kitchen, with a tennis ball.ѻý
Nothing was too much work for my Father. He cleared the floor and we played hockey on the linoleum.
ѻýDaddy, you play goal.ѻý
He played goal, we hit him everywhere with that ballѻý no pads in those days. Iѻýll bet he was sore that night and black and blue everywhere.
In summer he played horsey, we rode him until he dropped. In fall the crimson leaves of the maple trees were piled high then, all three of us, jumped into them from the porch. He was one of us, until we stepped out of line, then he was a taskmaster. It had to be done correctly or we had to do it again. When we said, we didnѻýt have time to do it correctly then, heѻýd ask, ѻýIf you donѻýt have time to do it correctly now, when will you have time to do it again?ѻý
I never thought much about that statement until I heard my son say, ѻýBut Daddy, I donѻýt have time to do it right.ѻý
ѻýĢĢ
ѻýPop, can I have the car tonight?ѻý
ѻýѻýMayѻý I have the carѻý not ѻýcanѻý I have the car? Remember others judge you by the way you speak, so speak correctly. Now, again.ѻý
ѻýOhhhh, alright. May I have the car tonight Father, dear?ѻý
ѻýYes, but rememberѻýhome by midnight and put gas in the car on the way home.ѻý
ѻýYes, Pop.ѻý
He always let me have the car whenever I asked and I received the same reminder each time. When I came down for breakfast in the morning he asked. ѻýHow was the dance last night, son?ѻý
ѻýGreat, Dad, thanks for the carѻý yes, I was home by midnight.ѻý
ѻýI know, son. Did you put gas in the tank?ѻý
ѻýUh, no that would have made me late. Thought Iѻýd get it today.ѻý
After breakfast, I went for gas and ran out on the way to the station.
No, I didnѻýt get heck or a lecture, just, ѻýMaybe next time youѻýll get it on the way home.ѻý
ѻýĢĢ
ѻýFather, youѻýre looking better today. Howѻýre you feeling?ѻý I asked.
Mother and I had taken Father into the hospital on Tuesday. He had a low-grade infection and was admitted for observation. During the week he had some spells. It was now Saturday and he was deteriorating.
ѻýRemember, dad, the kidsѻýll be at our place for lunch tomorrowѻýthen home to London. Iѻýll see you in the evening.ѻý
ѻýA.ѻý
He watched me head towards the door. I turned and looked back at him. His eyes were sadѻý a tear slid down his cheek.
I returned to his bedside, put my arms around him and said, for the first time in my life, ѻýDad, I love you.ѻý
This would be the last time Iѻýd have an opportunity to say, ѻýI love youѻý to my Fatherѻý he had a heart attack at two the next afternoon, went into a comma and was gone at four.
Never be afraid to say I love you.
William S. Peckham is a Kelowna author and freelance columnist. If you have a comment or question about his stories or his novels you are invited to contact Bill at peck102mch@yahoo.ca
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